In Episode 1 of SZWordeatery, I offered a few tips on time management for writers and admitted that I don’t always take my own advice. We’re all human; sometimes we spend two hours we didn’t have on a quest to read everything the internet has to offer on the life of Bill Watterson because some article stirred up our Calvin and Hobbes obsession.
But we also work against our better judgment to get the job done. Let’s admit to some truths about the dirty deeds we do for our all-consuming need to write. These are the accidental/inevitable ink-stains on the tidy, white life-coaching package.
1. We make unhealthy choices.
We discover that a 6 o’clock grande cappuccino can power us through a full evening of writing and keep us from crashing as a result of the three cups we had earlier in the day.
We also find that, with those three cups+cappuccino, we can be productive, functioning members of society on four hours of sleep.
We realize that food isn’t necessary when we’re caught up in a flight of inspiration. Why is it dark outside? Didn’t I just eat breakfast a minute ago?
2. Our brains throw tantrums at the worst times.
No matter how well we plan out our day, our brain might want reading when we want writing. It may not want to do anything at all.
We can’t force great ideas whenever it’s convenient to us. We can only force bad ideas and hope to find a gem in the trash heap.
Sometimes knowing we have a deadline just around the corner is enough to make our brains go into a vegetative state.
3. Life gets in the way of writing/Writing gets in the way of life.
After a full work week of sleep deprivation and caffeine overdosing, we crash and burn hard when we finally have a full weekend to focus on getting things done.
Family and friends need us when we need solitude.
Dirty dishes walk out of our sinks to slap us after a week of neglect.
We either don’t make time for exercise and end up looking like we were shot out to space and forgotten there, or we do make time for it but all the while cursing our bodily needs for taking us away from our work.
4. We make painful sacrifices.
To make more time, we give up other hobbies and dreams we loved almost equally, but not equally enough.
We forget what it means to have a free day to ourselves; we calendar relaxation. Activities we used to do for fun become integrated into our work lives–they become blog topics, articles, and pictorial marketing tools.
Time with friends and family is the hardest sacrifice we make. We lose loved ones.
It’s funny how once you decide to make the time to write and make it a priority, you forget how to live without that time. No, you don’t just forget–you simply cannot do without. When I decided I would make time for writing, I didn’t realize this activity would effectively eat up my life.
This all might sound daunting to someone still on the fence about putting writing first, but here’s another truth:
I never feel like I’m missing out.
When I write, I’m complete and so satisfied with what I’m doing that I don’t feel too bad about declining that invitation to go somewhere fun on a whim. I may grumble about deadlines, but I actually get a thrill from the challenge. Losing people is hard, but giving up or compromising your dreams for someone else is soul-deadening.
It’s not for everyone. You have to love it in order to endure. Listen to Dr. Kelso; remember that nothing in this world worth having comes easy.